The Compassionate Friends 31st National Conference

July18-20, 2008

 


 

Keynote Speakers, Workshops, Sharing Sessions, Activities

Bring Healing Experience to Nashville, Tennessee

 


 

Keynote Speakers

 

©      Dr. Frank R. Lewis—a surviving sibling, speaker, author, and pastor who for 10 years
 led the sibling support group of The Compassionate Friends of Las Vegas.

                                                                               (Friday opening speaker)
                                                                                 Speaker's Biography
 

©      Bruce Murakami—whose remarkable story about how he has bonded and teamed with
the drag racing teen who ended the life of his wife and daughter was made into the
 Hallmark Hall of Fame movie Crossroads: A Story of Forgiveness.

(See this movie Saturday, June 14, 9 pm ET or Saturday, June 28, 5 pm ET on the Hallmark Channel) 

                                                                                    (Friday afternoon banquet speaker)

                                                                                              Speaker's Biography

                                  ©      Darrell Scott—whose daughter was the first to die at Columbine was inspired to start
“                                             Rachel’s Challenge” in her memory, a program so far presented at more than a
                                                     thousand high schools designed to inspire kindness and compassion.
                                                                           (Saturday evening banquet speaker)
                                                                                       Speaker's Biography

                                ©      Ann Hood—bereaved parent, is the award winning author of nine novels including
                                                                       Comfort: My Journey Through Grief.

                                                                               (Sunday closing speaker)
                                                                                  Speaker's Biography


Read What Those Attending Recent TCF
National Conferences Say About the Experience 

“This was an inspiring, comforting and emotional event I will never forget. The people who organized it are amazingly caring people.”
(Read More)


Online and Mail-in Registration for the National Conference
Is Now Closed. Walk-in Registration
Available in Nashville Starts 3 p.m. Thursday, July 17.

                                                                                 

                                                                   Conference Schedule                                        

Listing of Scheduled Workshops

Please review the many parent, sibling, and grandparent workshops to determine those which you are most interested in attending (required for registration online—this does not save you a spot for the workshops nor commit you to attending
these specific workshops, but enables us to determine interest in each workshop so that we may better plan and accommodate those wishing to attend them).
Workshop List


“I look forward to next year in Nashville, and am already planning my vacation around that! Keep up the loving, GREAT work!! Kudos to everyone who made that conference possible! You saved me from the worst unhappiness one could ever bear!
Don’t change a thing!! Thank you!”
               

           Note received after last year’s national conference.


Conference Features

©      Friendship, understanding, and hope in everything that makes up the
      conference from the workshops and banquets, to sharing sessions, the
      Walk to Remember and the pre-conference Professional Outreach Day.

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An expanded sibling program designed for reflection and fun.
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Workshop track for parents with no surviving children.
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Professional Outreach Day, designed for students and mental health 
      professionals, as well as parents, siblings, and grandparents seeking
      to learn a different perspective on grief.

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A special Friday evening performance by the Grammy Award Winning
      Nashville Bluegrass Band.

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The ninth annual Walk to Remember Sunday, July 20 prior to the closing of the conference.
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A variety of gifts and mementos available in the Butterfly Boutique.
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Memory Boards where you can place an 8”X10” or smaller photo or memento of the child,
      sibling, or grandchild you are remembering.

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A Reflection Room that provides a peaceful atmosphere and tranquil environment allowing
       you to withdraw into private reflection.

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A bookstore from the folks at Centering Corporation stocked with books, audio and video
      cassettes (and CDs and DVDs) and other items of interest to bereaved parents, siblings,
      grandparents, friends, and professionals.

                                 May 2008 TCF National Conference Press Release

                                July 2008 TCF National Conference Press Release


Opportunities to Support the Conference

Every year we are asked by TCF members how they can financially help support the conference, a difficult and expensive labor of love. There are many, many sponsorship opportunities available to support the 2008 TCF National Conference in Nashville and remember a special child in your life. Your sponsorship helps to underwrite the tremendous expense of the conference and without it, we would not be able to provide a conference experience of the high quality you have come to expect.

 For a list of available sponsorship opportunities, visit Sponsorship Opportunities


Sponsor a Record Program Ended

 The deadline for submitting pictures for the “Sponsor a Record” program has passed. Hundreds of these special records will be carefully mounted on the walls in the registration area, the reflection room, and the hospitality rooms. At the conference, please take some time to remember the children who adorn these records that were made by the conference committee with such tremendous care.


  

Ninth Annual Walk to Remember 

The Compassionate Friends Walk to Remember has become a true highlight of every conference. This is the 9th annual event and will be held at 8 a.m. Sunday, July 20 just prior to the closing, starting at the hotel. In past years, as many as 1500 have participated in the Walk to Remember. You do not have to register for the conference in order to register for the walk.

You can register for the Walk to Remember alone or in conjunction with the national conference or the pre-conference Professional Outreach Day (which includes registration for the conference) through the online registration form. Those registering will receive a Walk to Remember T-shirt and a “race style” bib on which you can write the name(s) of the child(ren) you are remembering and wear it on the back of your walk T-shirt.
You can also register by downloading the Conference Registration Brochure and mailing the Walk to Remember form to TCF’s National Office.

While it is not required, many walkers seek personal sponsors who are happy to have the opportunity to financially support
The Compassionate Friends. Sponsor forms are available in the downloadable Conference Registration Brochure .

If you are unable to participate in the Walk to Remember in Nashville, many TCF chapters are holding concurrent events around the country. Those will be listed on the national website as we are made aware of them.

Even if you are unable to attend the Walk to Remember in Nashville, you can still be a part of this event in a number of different ways shown on this page.

Send the name of the child(ren) being remembered so they can be carried by staff and volunteers in the Walk to Remember. Last year the names of more than 10,000 children were estimated to have been carried in the walk. Our next goal is 15,000. You can help make this happen and have a special child remembered by submitting the child’s name at :

Have Your Child’s Name Carried in the Walk to Remember!


Walk to Remember a Special Child at the Conference

Join in the ‘Friends Asking Friends’ Walk to Remember
 Fundraising Program

This will be the third year that the Friends Asking Friends® fundraising program has been incorporated in TCF’s Walk to Remember. This program allows you to make an easy to create website (at no charge) in memory of a special child.

The object is for you to participate by setting a fundraising goal and asking friends (and family) over the Internet (or offline) to support TCF’s Walk to Remember by making a donation in support of the child you are remembering. All monies raised from the Walk to Remember Friends Asking Friends fundraiser will be used to fund TCF National programs and participating chapters.
 

To learn more about this fantastic and unique opportunity to support The Compassionate Friends, visit: 

Walk to Remember Friends Asking Friends Program!


 Professional Outreach Day

Pre-registration for Professional Outreach Day Now Closed
On-site Registration 8-9 a.m. July 17

Held the Thursday before the conference officially begins, this year July 17, Professional Outreach Day is aimed at professionals whose varied careers include working with bereaved families during and after the death of a child. However, anyone attending the conference is invited to register for this informative program and should find it interesting.

Theme of Professional Outreach Day is “It Takes a Village.” Keynote speaker will be Kenneth Doka, Ph.D., Professor of Gerontology at the Graduate School of The College of New Rochelle, Senior Consultant to the Hospice Foundation of America, and a prolific author including such books as Men Don’t Cry, Women Do: Transcending Gender Stereotypes of Grief; Stereotypes of Grief; Children Mourning, Mourning Children; Death and Spirituality; and Living with Grief: Who We Are, How We Grieve. Dr. Doka is editor of both Omega and Journeys: A Newsletter for the Bereaved. His address will be on “Challenging Cultural Myths: How Grief is Minimized.”

Two workshops are offered that run concurrently before lunch, which is be provided to registrants. After lunch, Richard Shelton, M.D., from the Departments of Psychiatry and Pharmacology at Vanderbilt University will speak on “Differential Diagnosis and Depression: Assessing Normal, Complicated, and Traumatic Grief Following Loss.” The day will be rounded out by a Panel Discussion on “Building Networks of Support – It Really Does Take a Village.”

“It Takes a Village” Information Brochure

Complete information regarding credit hours provided is in the Professional Outreach brochure.


 

Conference Music Performers!

Part of the conference experience is wonderful music and this conference promises exceptional performances throughout including a special Sunday Closing performance by The Sounds of the Siblings.

Tammy Vice

Friday, July 18

(Opening Ceremony)

Biography


Kim McLean

Friday, July 18

(Friday Afternoon Banquet)

Biography 


The Nashville Bluegrass Band

Friday, July 18

(Special Evening Performance)

Biography 


Beth Nielsen Chapman

Saturday, July 19

(Saturday Evening Banquet)

Biography 


Betty-Ashton Andrews

Saturday, July 19

 (Evening Harp Background Music

and Candle Lighting)

Biography 


Timothy Cierpke

Saturday, July 19

(Cellist at Closing of Banquet)

Biography


Sounds of the Siblings

Sunday, July 20

(Closing Ceremony) 


 Area Attractions
Nashville
– Music City USA

There is so much to see and do, you may want to extend your conference experience with a few extra days to view this city’s main sites and attractions. 

Here’s just a sampling of the sites:

Country Music Hall of Fame—Taking up a whole city block, this attraction houses more than 750,000 historical artifacts, a virtual shrine to the genre, spanning the long and varied history of country music. Catch a show at the state of the art Ford Museum. Learn about all the Hall of Fame Inductees including Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton, Hank Williams, Minnie Pearl. and Roy Rogers. www.countrymusichalloffame.com/site/ 

Grand Ole Opry—A live entertainment phenomenon that began as a simple radio broadcast in 1925, the Grand Ole Opry, called the “home of American music” honors country music’s rich history, showcasing a mix of country legends and contemporary chart-toppers who have followed in their footsteps. www.opry.com/MeetTheOpry/MeetTheOpry.aspx

The Parthenon—this faithful recreation of the original Parthenon built for the 1897 Tennessee Centennial Exposition is the centerpiece of Nashville’s premier Centennial Park, and houses Nashville’s Art Museum. http://www.nashville.gov/Parthenon/  

Tennessee Excursion Trains—part of the Tennessee Central Railway Museum offers rides throughout middle Tennessee and is dedicated to the preservation of the state’s railroad heritage. http://www.tcry.org/

Additional Attractions: Hank Williams Jr. Museum; Adventure Science Center; The Carter House; General Jackson Showboat; Nashville Zoo at Grassmere; Nashville Toy Museum; Nashville Car Museum; First American Music Center; Cumberland River Charters; Belmont Mansion; and much, much more.


 Conference Location and Hotel Information 

The conference will be held July 18-20, 2008 at the Sheraton Music City Hotel, 777 McGavock Pike in Nashville, Tennessee, 37214.The pre-conference Professional Outreach Day will be Thursday July 17, 2008. 

A block of rooms has been set aside at the Sheraton Music City Hotel for the convenience of those attending the conference. The beautiful Sheraton Music City Hotel, is the second largest freestanding convention and conference hotel in Nashville and winner of ten consecutive “Gold Key Awards” for excellence from Meeting and Conventions Magazine. All conference activities will be held in the hotel except for the Walk to Remember. TCF’s conference will occupy virtually the entire hotel.

Room Rate: TCF has negotiated a block of rooms at $124 (plus tax) per night for standard guestrooms at the Sheraton Music City Hotel. This rate will be available through June 20, 2008 or until the room block is full. The negotiated room rate is available for persons staying July 15-July 23

Hotel Reservations: Reservations may be made by calling 888-627-7060. Local phone number: 615-885-2200. You may also reserve a room online at Room Registration.  When calling, be certain to inform the hotel that you will be attending The Compassionate Friends Conference to receive the special room rate. 


Important Notice: Overflow Hotel Information

 Currently TCF’s room block at the Sheraton Music City Hotel is full. We recommend those wishing
 to stay at the Sheraton Music City Hotel call back regularly to see if rooms have been released by
 those reserving them. TCF has now been able to negotiate for and add a block of rooms at the
 Nashville Airport Marriott Hotel. The hotel is located approximately two miles from the airport with
 complimentary shuttle and is approximately½ mile from the Sheraton Music City Hotel with shuttle
 service available before 8 a.m. July 17-20. Return shuttle service will be provided in the evening by
 the Sheraton Music City Hotel.Room rate is $124 per night for 1-4 persons in a room and is
 available for  persons staying July 17-20. Cutoff date at this special rate, if rooms are still available
 in the block,  is June 26. Call 800-228-9290 for reservations or locally at 615-889-9300 and
 mention you are  with The Compassionate Friends. Call early to avoid disappointment.

Important Notice: Additional Overflow Hotel

 TCF has negotiated and added an additional room block at the Courtyard (Marriott) Nashville
 Airport (this is not the same hotel as the Nashville Airport Marriott Hotel). The Courtyard (Marriott)
 Nashville Airport is located approximately two miles from the airport at 2508 Elm Hill Pike and
 there are regular shuttles between the airport and the hotel. Details of shuttle service between the
 Courtyard (Marriott) and the Sheraton Music City Hotel are being worked out, but will be available.
 Room charge is $95 for one to four persons and is available for persons staying July 17-20. Call
 800-321-2211 for reservations or locally 615-883-9500 and mention you are with The
 Compassionate Friends. Cutoff date at this special rate, if rooms remain available in the block, is
 Thursday, June 26.
 


 

        

Sheraton Music City Hotel

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